Eliot Kimber's blog has a tutorial on how to do the dtd modifications:
http://drmacros-xml-rants.blogspot.com/2007/03/tutorial-specializing-dita-conditional.htmlXMetaL's authoring dtds are located in the 'Author\DITA\DITA_OT_DTD' folder. XMetaL's integrated DITA OT has a separate copy of the dtds that need to be manually kept in sync under 'Common Files\XMetaL Shared\DITA_OT\dtd'.
To configure XMetaL's Condition Text dialogs to show the specialized props, editing the Author\Conditional Text\configs\ct_config.xml. This process is described in the XMetaL help (see 'Modify conditions' topic or search for 'ct_config.xml').
Regards,
Addam